When you say that you are secure with who you are~
Then why? … try to be like someone else?
“Be” the “You” that “You” want others to believe that “You” are~
Confidence is beautiful, though many of us carry a false confidence out of fear. The fear that others may see the who, we truly are. Instead of mirroring our true self outward we begin to mirror our friends, acquaintances or family members as a insecure disguise. We sit back and watch the popular one or the pretty one or the social butterflies and so on. Instead of being grateful for our special qualities we shy away and hold them inside. In turn we mask ourselves with the qualities of others because that is what we want in our own life. We loose ourselves in wanting to be like others and this is where envy and jealousy find a place within our heart. As time goes on we loose ourselves in an artificial world that is not our own.
It is important that we keep our individuality and even though we have different qualities if we look deeper within ourselves we can see that many of us are alike. We all want exactly the same things for ourselves an for others which is Love, Peace, Comfort, Respect and Security, mainly.
Not everyone is as excepting as they could be and there is a lot of disconnect in the world, this is why we need to be our very own authentic self. We need truth and compassion to fill the empty spaces of dishonesty and hate. Being ourselves and trusting that that is enough makes for a great beginning. Giving it a chance and only having a few others around you that accept you and are authentic themselves is enough. We do not need many any longer, even small groups can make a difference. All we need is to lift each other up with love and support and we can remain strong and Be Ourselves ❤
We can all be enticed by those who speak of such wisdom and knowledge. We are drawn in with the thirst to learn as we want to spend time with those that want to teach us and work together. We take on friendships, partnerships and relation ships by just words alone. Never really asking for proof of this knowledge and trusting the words because they are so bright and full of color. As time goes on we see that the words are just that!! Never do they take shape or transform within the relationship, they become stagnant and repetitive. Like an echo of words already spoken. As this happens we find ourselves lost for words and wonder how we got ourselves into this trap. Only to find out that there is no beautiful end to this rainbow.
May you always find the light in them that is in you! If you struggle may it be a lesson as you move on along your journey!