Be You

When you say that you are secure with who you are~

Then why? … try to be like someone else?

“Be” the “You” that “You” want others to believe that “You” are~

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Confidence is beautiful, though many of us carry a false confidence out of fear. The fear that others may see the who, we truly are.  Instead of mirroring our true self outward we begin to mirror our friends, acquaintances or family members as a insecure disguise. We sit back and watch the popular one or the pretty one or the social butterflies and so on. Instead of being grateful for our special qualities we shy away and hold them inside.  In turn we mask ourselves with the qualities of others because that is what we want in our own life. We loose ourselves in wanting to be like others and this is where envy and jealousy find a place within our heart. As time goes on we loose ourselves in an artificial world that is not our own.

It is important that we keep our individuality and even though we have different qualities if we look deeper within ourselves we can see that many of us are alike. We all want exactly the same things for ourselves an for others which is Love, Peace, Comfort, Respect and Security, mainly.

Not everyone is as excepting as they could be and there is a lot of disconnect in the world, this is why we need to be our very own authentic self. We need truth and compassion to fill the empty spaces of dishonesty and hate. Being ourselves and trusting that that is enough makes for a great beginning. Giving it a chance and only having a few others around you that accept you and are authentic themselves is enough. We do not need many any longer, even small groups can make a difference. All we need is to lift each other up with love and support and we can remain strong and Be Ourselves ❤

~Blessings~

Tonya Marie

Cords of Chaos

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As a co-creator I create.. leaving these creative attachments on a trail behind me…Some are of success and are what keep me going with faith and hope!!

Many others that have been left behind in a tangled mess of Chaos are those unsuccessful creations. One after the other that has been created with hope and thoughts of success..haha moving on to the next and then the next!!

I have come to the realization that my cords are stretching out all over the place and I am not speaking about my art creations. I am speaking about the aliases that I have created for who I am. All of the “pet” names that I have created for myself have taken away from my true self! I have come to the point where I don’t even know how to represent myself any more! I have been in the try this or change this or what about this name that I have taken away the best part of it all and that’s…… Me!

I feel as though the universe is saying to me… “Your being strangled within your Chords of Chaos!! You have lost your Authentic self within these characters of who you think you are or who your peers think you are, this is not who you are! ” It is time to cut these cords and find you again! Allow the guidance to come in, your heart to open and listen, this time!……………. I feel this could be for anyone that feels stuck in Chaos! Listen to your universe and cut those cords that are holding you back…… from “You”! Asking Arch Angel Michael to use his sword and help you cut these cords is a great beginning~

I Am finding and re-creating me again ♥

Love, Tonya Marie ♥