Not Everyone Fits..

not a match..

We have all been there, in a group or on our own. At first everything goes well and we think this will be a great friendship or maybe from the beginning we feel a weird vibe that we couldn’t explain right away. We ask ourselves if we are being jealous, mean or judge mental but the more we hang out the more we see that we just can’t click with this person. What makes it even harder is that they seem fine, oblivious to how we are feeling. It is like they can’t feel the same vibe that we do. 

As time goes by we begin to question the intentions of the friendship and why it has come to us. We even begin to feel there is no purpose to it at all, it’s not like we like this person very much but wait isn’t that mean? No it isn’t mean it is okay to not like someone because not everyone fits. We see that there are many people that like them but no matter how hard we try to find a way it doesn’t work. 

Now that we see that the relationship with this person isn’t going to work, what do we do? Earlier we asked ourselves why? what is the reason for this? These are the perfect questions to ask yourself. Why does this keep happening to me? This might be a repetitive occurrence in our lives, we keep drawing these type of relationships to us.  This means it is time for a change, a change in what we want in friendships and who we want to attract to us. This shows us that the lessons in the past we have not learnt from. Now we have to look deep within ourselves to find the root cause. 

When we focus on the things that we don’t like that is what comes to us just like the things we love do as well. When there is something in our lives that we continue to bring up and we allow it to keep control over us then it will continue to come back over and over or it will remain in our life. Accepting the person for who they are and kindly putting space between you will help the change begin. As we create this change we can start focusing on what we want and who we want to meet.  Making changes in our life by welcoming fresh positive energy is going to help us grow into our true authentic selves. Welcome those who support you and lift your spirit high, find the lesson in those who pass through and move along toward positive lasting friendships.

Love and Light,

Tonya Marie

Butterfly Be Free

I found you ..

Rolling lifelessly …

Wet and weak…

You crawled upon my warm hand..

Then you walked with me..

Grateful in my hand..

I blew upon your wings..

Hoping to comfort and heal…

I set you on a leaf…

You spread your wings..

As if to breath…

A grateful flutter…

I walked away with promise..

You will fly again..

Butterfly be free….


Blessings & Love,

Tonya Marie~




Be You

When you say that you are secure with who you are~

Then why? … try to be like someone else?

“Be” the “You” that “You” want others to believe that “You” are~

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Confidence is beautiful, though many of us carry a false confidence out of fear. The fear that others may see the who, we truly are.  Instead of mirroring our true self outward we begin to mirror our friends, acquaintances or family members as a insecure disguise. We sit back and watch the popular one or the pretty one or the social butterflies and so on. Instead of being grateful for our special qualities we shy away and hold them inside.  In turn we mask ourselves with the qualities of others because that is what we want in our own life. We loose ourselves in wanting to be like others and this is where envy and jealousy find a place within our heart. As time goes on we loose ourselves in an artificial world that is not our own.

It is important that we keep our individuality and even though we have different qualities if we look deeper within ourselves we can see that many of us are alike. We all want exactly the same things for ourselves an for others which is Love, Peace, Comfort, Respect and Security, mainly.

Not everyone is as excepting as they could be and there is a lot of disconnect in the world, this is why we need to be our very own authentic self. We need truth and compassion to fill the empty spaces of dishonesty and hate. Being ourselves and trusting that that is enough makes for a great beginning. Giving it a chance and only having a few others around you that accept you and are authentic themselves is enough. We do not need many any longer, even small groups can make a difference. All we need is to lift each other up with love and support and we can remain strong and Be Ourselves ❤


Tonya Marie

You Are The Creator..

What will you Do…

How will you Feel…

What makes you Happy…

Are you filled with Peace...


You are the Creator and all that you want is swirling inside of you awaiting permission to be released. Look into the mirror of your true intentions and Be all that you want to Be and reflect your divine light outward to others. Know that a mere smile can reach a beating heart the second it is received ❤ 


Love and Blessings,

Tonya Marie


The Mothers Rains

She sprinkles magic upon the earth…

As the rain caresses the life upon her…

Seeming to be brought to life…

A brightening glow of renewal is present…

A mirror to reflect gratitude toward her…

Nourished by the mothers rains once again…

Pine Reflections
Pine Reflections

In the moments after the rain I went out to connect with the earth, not having a special camera I seized the moment with my phone! Taking photos is a passion that goes in hand with writing ❤

Much Love and Blessings ❤

Tonya Marie,